Never Force A Man To Be A Father To His Child – Sandra Iheuwa

Ubi Franklin’s 4th baby mama, Sandra Iheuwa, has shared her reaction to Toyin Lawani’s Instagram post about ladies blocking dad from having access to their kids as punishment when a relationship goes south.

Recall that Lawani had said the women that do that should not think they can play a father’s role for their children, because it is impossible.

Reacting to the post, Sandra said some women do not even block fathers from having access, the men are actually the ones that really do not want to be part of their child’s life or have a relationship with him or her.

She added that if a man is not willing to be a parent to his son or daughter, it is best for him to stay far away.

Her words, “Some women do not block kids from their dad, some men just don’t want to be in their child’s life or have love for them to even see or hold them even at birth and after birth……if the man doesn’t want to be a participating parent it’s best he stays where he is and stays away because at times the kids will be better off without such father…..you can’t force them to parent. #truestory.”

“The father is avoiding the child irrespective of how the mom behaves there are other avenues of seeing or being in the child’s life if the father doesn’t want to deal with the mother for whatever reason. There is no excuse whatsoever the father can call the mother chat with her all day but never for once ask about the child or schedule a day to see the child. You haven’t dealt with this kind of men before they will create excuses upon excuses for no seeing their own child. If the woman was dramatic or whatever why then release inside her and get her pregnant? ? it takes 2 to tangle. Some women are not the problem here. You haven’t met a dead beat and you do you will understand.”

See what she wrote,

Do you agree?